I met a shopper in the grocer's
Xe was a perfect specimen
of masculinity
I told xem so
how I envied xem
and asked xem how to be more
of a man
Xe told me
'a man is one who believes
in their own masculinity'
and if I was confident enough
I could be as masculine as I wanted
(if not as male-bodied)
Then xe told me something else
---something much more important---
Xe didn't care for masculinity
(or femininity for that matter)
Xe accepted xir body as it was given
but would rather I referred to xem
by xir actions
and so I shall